The Recovering Conflict Avoiders’ Club You really don’t want to have this conversation. You know you should. It’s been hanging over your head for weeks now: what you said, what they said, what both of you didn’t say. But how do you get yourself to start talking about it? When I (Sara) was young, ...

  In early 2022, Sara and I got a call from Rebel Wisdom. They had a problem: their community, despite being unusually bright, dangerously curious, and predisposed to that greatest of libertarian vices: solipsism, didn’t really know how to talk to each other. Their community was founded...

How to fight your dad - and win “You’re a failure,” he screamed at me. Red faced, spit flying from his mouth, hands balled into fists as he stared me down. “You never amounted to anything. And you don’t come home to visit!” I took a breath. Then I yelled back, just as loudly. “Don’t you want me t...