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Does this sound like you?

  • You replay conversations in your head, wishing you’d said something different… or anything at all.
  • You feel yourself shutting down or blowing up, even when you try to stay calm.
  • You avoid certain people or topics because it never ends well.
  • You’re the “peacekeeper” in your relationships, but it’s exhausting and lonely.
  • You’re great at arguing… but not at feeling heard—or truly hearing others.
  • You long for more honest, open connection but fear what happens if you speak your truth.

You're not alone!

When Maya signed up for the course, she thought she just needed a few scripts for better boundaries. But by week two, she was already having calmer conversations with her partner and noticing where her old conflict patterns were rooted in early experiences.

By the end of the course, Maya wasn’t just communicating better, she felt more connected, less anxious, and more confident speaking up… even when it was hard.

Imagine,

If You Could…

  • Know what to say and how to say it when things get tense
  • De-escalate even the most emotional conversations, without shutting down or giving in
  • Show up calm and clear, instead of reactive and defensive
  • Repair conflict after it happens... and actually grow from it
  • Understand your own triggers and communication style, so you stop repeating old patterns

Feel more powerful, connected, and respected in your relationships both at home and at work

INTRODUCING

the Art of Difficult Conversations

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we were never taught how to navigate conflict well

 The Art of Difficult Conversations On-Demand is a self-paced, practical training in the emotional and strategic skills needed to handle high-stakes conversations with clarity, courage, and connection.

This is the most efficient, accessible, and empowering way to learn conflict fluency—without the shame, jargon, or fluff of traditional communication workshops. Built on real-life application and embodied practice, it delivers the skills you need in under 30 days or over the course of a lifetime — you decide.

At your own pace. Anywhere. Any time.

You'll save years of trial and error, expensive coaching, and painful relationship fallout—by getting tools that actually work, grounded in neuroscience, trauma awareness, and deep human insight.

This course is perfect for: Couples, colleagues, coaches, and leaders who want to connect more deeply, communicate more clearly, and stop replaying the same fights over and over again.

I'm Ready

What's Included In The Art of Difficult Conversations...

Each section has a dedicated workbook and quiz along with the video lessons and a full length class.

Every video has a transcript and audio file availabe for download. Sections have demos of important skills, practices you can begin immediately, reference materials for deep dives, assignments to get your reps in, and bloopers... so you don't take us... or yourselves, too seriously. 

We include the full 70 page workbook in addition to all 10 of the section based workbooks.

You gain access to free weekly Fight Labs, where we practice real conversations, and you join an international community of support and practice organized on WhatsApp.

This is the most comprehensive, discipline agnostic course on navigating conflict we are aware of... and we wrote the book(s) on it. 

Great, but what do you cover?

We're glad you asked...

 
SECTION 1

Foundations

Master the core frameworks and mindsets that make even the hardest conversations navigable—from shared interests to the “I, You, We” lens.

SECTION 2

Structure 

Learn how to organize and deliver your message clearly, using practical tools like Truthwork, The Third Story, and withhold-clearing strategies.

SECTION 3

Relating Languages

Understand and adapt to different communication styles so you stop talking past each other and start (re)connecting.

SECTION 4

Connection Toolkit

Practice the full toolkit of relational intelligence—mirroring, curiosity, validation, and vulnerability—to build trust and transform tension into understanding.

SECTION 5

Self-Regulation

Develop body-based and psychological tools to stay grounded and centered before, during, and after emotionally charged conversations.

SECTION 6

Requests & Boundaries

Get fluent in setting clear, elegant boundaries and making actionable, non-defensive requests—without guilt, shutdowns, or power plays.

SECTION 7

Bad Actors

Learn how to recognize and respond effectively to manipulation, faulty reasoning, and harmful behavior without losing your center.

SECTION 8

Use of Power

Map the hidden dynamics of power, status, and authority so you can lead and respond with intentional presence, not unconscious patterns.

SECTION 9

Rational Resolutions

Discover collaborative resolution strategies rooted in logic, empathy, and creative problem-solving—even when interests seem opposed.

SECTION 10

Grand Finale

Integrate everything you’ve learned through structured games, demos, and real-life application—so the tools stick when you need them most.

Begin the Conversation
NICE TO MEET YOU,

We're Sara & Geof.

We didn’t create this course in a vacuum.

Geof has spent the last two decades leading in high-conflict communities and high-risk industries, working with activists, leaders, families, couples, and even manufacturing plants, on the brink of collapse.

Sara has trained thousands in the art of authentic relating and communication—transforming theory into embodied, relational skill. Literally authoring the source text on the practice, distributed to every continent on the globe.

And together, through Authentic Revolution, we’ve led over 10,000 people through live trainings, group practices, and real-world conflict transformation.

But this course wasn’t born from perfection, it was born from heartbreak, rupture, and the humbling realization that most of us were never taught how to do conflict well.

We built these tools because we needed them in our own lives—messy conversations with partners, co-workers, parents, and ourselves.

That’s why The Art of Difficult Conversations On-Demand isn’t just a course. It’s the distillation of everything we’ve learned: psychology, neuroscience, mediation, personal practice... all packaged into a training you can take at your own pace, in your own home, with real results.

If you’ve ever said, “I wish someone had taught me how to handle this,”—this is that training.

And it’s yours now. From us. For you. For any and every conversation that really matters.

Let's Go!

Don't just take our word for it... we have thousands of graduates

This course hits differently.

Why it slaps so hard:

  • Practice-first design: Most courses teach what to say. We show you how to practice it until it’s in your bones.

  •  Emotionally intelligent + strategically sharp: We bridge trauma-awareness, negotiation tools, improv, and relational neuroscience.

  • Built from conflict, not just theory: Created by mediators, facilitators, and messy humans who’ve lived this work.

  • You’ll laugh, cringe, and grow: The course is vulnerable, imperfect, and refreshingly human, no (well, very little) corporate fluff.

  • Modular + bingeable: Designed to fit your life, whether you’re diving deep or learning between meetings.

  • From breakdown to breakthrough: You’ll see real demo conversations, both messy and masterful.

Join the Conversation.

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30-DAY MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE

If you aren’t completely satisfied with the Art of Difficult Conversations, let us know within the first 30-days for a full refund. All we ask is that you've completed at least 25% of the content.

What is the cost of unskilled conflict?

The price of not learning the lessons in The Art of Difficult Conversations is hard to quantify, because it's paid in moments lost, relationships strained, and truths never spoken.

Here’s what it really costs:

  • Burned bridges you didn’t mean to burn.

  • Resentments buried until they explode or erode trust in silence.

  • Sleep lost to conversations replayed and regrets rehearsed.

  • Relationships stalled because you couldn’t say what mattered most.

  • Opportunities missed, at work, in love, in leadership because the risk of honesty felt too high.

  • The ache of disconnection, even with people you care deeply about.

  • The version of you you know you're capable of being... stuck on mute.

And perhaps most of all:
The risk of repeating the same painful dynamics for years to come.

Investing in this course isn’t just about better conversations.
It’s about reclaiming your voice, your clarity, your courage and the relationships that matter most.

With our money-back guarantee, you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.